Pada pndangan majoriti ,, kluarga is more important than others right .. no one yg trlalu mlebihkan orng laen drpd kluarga sndiri .. klau ada pon .. maybe not much lha .. mngkin they have their own reason to do that .. 'maybe' .. but .. for the first time in my life .. i really dont know who is more important .. ( family / friends ) .. why ??? wakaka .. honestly .. sometime .. i fill that family is better than friends .. and sometime .. i fill that friends is better than family .. why it can be like this ???

Let see .. 4 an example .. if someday we have a problem .. then time tuh kita ada kat rumah .. pada saat tuh .. msti our fmily is more uses than our friends .. sbb time tuh .. fmily jerk yg pling dekat ngan kita ntok kita ceritakan about our problem .. right ??? tuh aq lha .. klau orng laen .. aq x sure dorng stelkan problem dorng mcm mner .. 

But .. it different bila kita brada jauh dr kawasan rumah .. means .. time nih .. friends is more important lha than our family .. why ?? bcouse .. time nih .. our friends is more uses than our family .. ok .. i give another example .. let see .. if someday U all ngan korng pnyer friends g jalan2 lha an .. pstu ada something happen .. ataupon .. senang cter .. korng ptos cnta ngan bf / gf korng .. comperm lha korng akan share problem korng uh with your friends .. right ..! haha .. x kan lha psal cnta korng nk share ngan family korng .. wakaka .. x rmai kowt yg brani / suka crita bnda mcm nih kt family dorng .. sbb .. janggal kowt .. kowt lha .. ni just pndangan I jerk .. hahak .. soo .. that why time nih .. U all is more need your friends .. not your family .. 

TETAPI .. haha .. ada 'TETAPI' .. laen pulak bg orng yg sperti nie .. huhu .. 

Time dia ada problem yg sngat2 besar .. then time tuh dia ada kat rumah .. TETAPI .. family dia not care about his / her .. wakaka .. comperm dia x kan share ngan family dia .. couse when he / she crita tntang msalah dia kat fmily dia .. they 'family' dia x bg apew2 nsihat n respon .. mcm x kesah jerk tntng diri dia .. then .. x salah .. and x kan mnjadi masalah klau tetibew dia mnganggap bahawa family is not uses in his / her life .. wakaka .. soo .. jgn marah klau ada sseorng dlm family .. lbih suka pntingkn friends daripada family .. 

Then .. lihat pula pd situasi nih .. jika dia ada msalah .. psal pmbelajaran .. or psal msalah dlm pcintaan lha senang kan .. then .. kawan2 dia .. mcm x brapew amik port dlm mslah dia uh .. ataupon .. ada friends dia uh .. jelous ngan dia sbb dia ada awek / pakwe cntik / nsem .. means .. 'kawan tikam blakang lha' .. bkn maen blakng ok .. hahak ,, tuh dah laen citew uh .. hukhuk .. comperm lha dia x kan trust ngan friends dia dah .. sbb friends dia uh .. x brapew baik n care psal dia .. sbaliknyer .. mcm x bg support kt dia .. wakaka .. soo .. x jd msalah lha juga an klau sseorng dlm frieds kitew uh .. is more pnting kan about their family more than his / her friends .. haha .. 

is it FAIR ..?? haha .. FAIR lha tuh an .. ngeh3 .. 

TETAPI .. wakaka .. ada lagi TETAPI .. nge~ 

Berbeza pula bg orng yg sperti nie .. ada family .. tp mcm x der family .. yew lha .. manew x nyer .. bilew ada kat rumah .. asyik knew marah jerk .. x pon .. dlm family dia uh .. die mcm dpinggirkan jerk .. buat tuh salah .. buat nih salah .. smua bnda die buat .. smua nyer salah .. tp .. klau family mmber dia ada yg buat mcm apew yg dia buat uh .. betul jerk .. x der pon orng nk marah2 .. nmpak sngat lha .. dia uh dbnci / dpinggirkan drpd family dia .. 

cuba klau situasi nie plak .. ada friends .. tp mcm x der friends jerk .. msing2 buat hal sndiri .. time friends dia ada problem .. dia bantu friends dia smpai msalah friends dia uh slesai .. tp .. time dia ada problem .. sorng makhluk 'friends' dia x der pon dtg mmbntu dia .. lg sakit lha an .. klau situasi mcm nie .. mcm harem jerk .. 

Klau dah situasi mcm nie .. jgn lha pndai2 mmbuat andaian burok tntng seseorng klau orng tuh brubah scara mndadak .. dr positive .. btukar kpd yg ngetif .. stiap yg blaku tuh .. psti ada alasan yg trsendiri .. kdg2 bkn salah mreka .. tp .. salah orng dsekeliling mreka .. snang2 mnghukum seseorng .. tnpa bpikir pnjng .. mcm pepatah ingeris .. 'don't judge a book by it cover' .. wakaka .. msok erk pepatah nih dlm crita nie .. ngeh3 .. lntak lha .. jnji .. crita slamat di ceritakan .. huhu .. 

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